Today, you’re going to learn how to give the best head. Blowjobs that will make your man’s eyes roll back into his head with pleasure.

But before we get down to the main course, let’s look at how to make it better by working on your pre-game.

 

Building Up to a Blow Job – Teasing and Tantalizing Your Partner

 

Not all men are instantly ready for intimacy or a blow job at any given moment. Some require more persuasion to get them in the mood, and this can become more challenging as they age. Here are some strategies to arouse him before physical contact:

 

1. **Sexy Selfies**: Send your partner a provocative selfie while they're at work or the gym. Apps like Snapchat can help if you prefer not to store photos.

2. **Dirty Texts & Sexting**: While your partner is out, send suggestive texts hinting at your plans. You could be explicit, like “I can’t wait to feel you explode in my mouth tonight,” or more subtle, like “Can’t wait to see you later…and my lips can’t wait either ;).” You can also describe in detail a new technique you’ve learned.

3. **Public Whispers**: If you’re out together in a non-intimate setting, lean in and whisper something tantalizing about your plans for later.

 

**Understanding What Arouses Him**: Men and women often have different triggers for arousal. For example, he might be excited by a nude photo of you, even if you don't share the same enthusiasm. Here are some specific things that might turn him on:

- Recalling a memorable intimate moment you’ve shared together.

- Softly speaking a particular word or phrase that resonates with him.

- Caressing specific parts of his body in a sensual manner.

- Giving him "The Look"

-Licking and/or biting your lips.

 

Knowing these specific triggers can help build sexual tension and anticipation.

 

**A Long Build-Up**: You can tease and tantalize over an hour or even days. If you won’t see him for a while, start sending dirty texts, sexy pics, and detailed stories about what you plan to do. This will keep him eagerly anticipating your next encounter.

 

By the time you finally meet, he'll be so eager and full of desire that the slightest touch will send shivers down his spine. This long build-up not only heightens his anticipation but also makes the eventual release that much more intense.

 

Teasing in Person – Once you’re together, the teasing doesn’t have to stop. In fact, it can become even more powerful. Here are a few techniques to drive him wild:

 

• **Grazing Touches** – Lightly brush your fingers against his thigh, his arm, or the back of his neck. The innocence of these touches, coupled with his pent-up desire, will be tantalizingly electric.

 

• **Eye Contact** – Hold his gaze a little longer than usual. There’s something incredibly intimate about prolonged eye contact that can make his heart race.

 

• **Whispered Promises** – Lean in close, letting your breath tickle his ear, and whisper your plans for later. Be as descriptive or as vague as you like, but make sure your voice is dripping with sensuality.

 

• **Subtle Teases** – Trace the outline of your lips with your tongue while he’s watching, or gently bite your lower lip. These small gestures can ignite a fire within him.

 

The Art of Undressing – When it’s finally time to take things to the next level, don’t rush. Make a show of undressing, either yourself or him. Every button undone, every zipper pulled, should be a slow, deliberate act that keeps his eyes glued to you.

 

Remember, the key to a mind-blowing blowjob isn’t just the act itself, but the anticipation, the build-up, and the teasing that come before it. Make him feel desired, make him feel wanted, and make him crave you like he’s never craved anyone else.

 

Now that you’ve set the stage, it’s time to dive into the main event. But always remember, the pre-game is just as important as the game itself.

 

 

The Blow Job Starts – Getting Down And Dirty

Once it’s time to get intimate, start with a make-out session to get the both of you warmed up. Kiss, suck, nibble and explore each other’s mouths… Build some heat and passion.

As you make out, slowly allow your kisses to move down his body. Allow your lips to graze over his chest, abs and stomach. Linger on his skin, teasing him with your mouth trailing lower and lower, until you arrive at his crotch.

Unzip his fly with your lips and teeth – this teases him and also puts your hands out of the equation for a while.

You can then fish out his cock with your mouth, again keeping your hands off him for as long as you can to make this more teasing and pleasurable for him.

The Tease Continues... – Cock Rubbing, Not Sucking - Yet!

With his cock now free of his pants and between your lips, start rubbing it with your lips. Slide it between your closed lips, letting it glide between them and getting it slick with your saliva.

But don't put it into your mouth yet - keep it outside your mouth - keep teasing him!

You can also use your tongue on him as you slide his cock between your lips, teasing the tip or the underside of his shaft.

Using just your mouth, lips and saliva, get his cock slick and fully erect with your teasing.

Stimulate His Entire Shaft – Including The Balls

When you first start sucking his cock, focus on giving his entire cock leisurely attention. Don't rush this and suck just the tip. Instead, take him deep into your mouth and allow your lips to slide back and forth over the full length of his shaft.

With your hands, stimulate his shaft and balls, massaging and lightly squeezing them. You can also use your free hand to gently tug on his pubic hair or use your nails to lightly scrape over his scrotum.

Take your time with this. Enjoy stimulating his whole cock and balls and tease him as you continue.

 

Blowjob Fluids – Fighting Gag Reflex, Swallowing & Deep Throating

 

Most men absolutely love seeing a mouthful of cum, and the sight of you gulping it down gets them super excited.

So if you can, swallow every last bit of his load. But if you can't quite manage not to gag, no big deal. Keeping some cum in your mouth but not swallowing it is also hot and arousing for men.

Men also adore the feeling of their cock rubbing against the back of a woman's throat which is why they love deep throating. The key is to relax your throat and breathe calmly through your nose as you take him deep.

If you aren't very experienced with deep throating and oral sex, then learning to relax your gag reflex will really help. Practicing deep throating with objects like a life-life dildo can help.

We will have another “How-To” specifically on deep-throating soon!

 

Advanced Techniques – Up The Heat Even More

 

Rolling your tongue around the head of his cock, using just your lips to suck his tip, and mixture sucking and nibbling motions can help keep him pumped and maximize sensation for him.

Using your hand during BJs to tug his cock and guide it back to your mouth between sucks is also a great way to keep providing pleasurable mind stimulation and variety.

Used sparingly, flat out wild eye contact can also be intensely arousing. When you pop off his member, look up at him with a wild and aroused stare, before plunging back down on him.

When you do pop off and come up for air, be sure to throw in some dirty talk. Tell him how good he tastes, how badly you want his cum, etc.

 

**The Grand Finale – Bringing Him to Climax**

 

As you feel his body tense and his cock throb, you’ll know he’s close. This is the moment to intensify your efforts:

 

• **Consistency is Key**: Keep your rhythm steady. Sudden changes can disrupt his climax. If he likes it fast and deep, keep going at that pace. If he prefers slow and sensual, maintain that tempo.

 

• **Focused Attention**: Concentrate on the most sensitive parts of his cock. The tip, the underside of the shaft, and the frenulum (the string-like tissue where the head meets the shaft) are hotspots.

 

• **Hand and Mouth Combo**: Use your hand to stroke his shaft while your mouth focuses on the head. This dual stimulation can send him over the edge.

 

• **Moan and Hum**: The vibrations from your moans can add an extra layer of pleasure. It also shows him that you’re enjoying this as much as he is.

 

**The Big Moment – When He Comes**

 

When he starts to come, don’t pull away. Keep him in your mouth and swallow, unless you’ve agreed on something else beforehand. Here’s how to handle it:

 

 **Swallowing** As he comes, keep your mouth softly around his cock and swallow his cum as it releases. This can be intensely pleasurable for him.

 

**Facials** Taking his load on your face or tits can be incredibly arousing for him as well. If you’re comfortable with it, let him know that he can finish on you. The visual stimulation of seeing his cum on your skin can enhance his pleasure and make the experience even more memorable for him. Always remember to communicate openly about what you’re both comfortable with before trying something new.

 

**Thank Him**: After he comes, gently release his cock from your mouth, look up at him with a smile, and say thank you. This will drive him wild and ensure this will be a blowjob he will never forget.

 

**Clean Up – The Finishing Touch**

 

After the act, take a moment to clean him up. This shows care and consideration, and it’s a gentle way to bring the intimate moment to a close:

 

**Use a Soft Cloth or Tissue**: Gently wipe his cock clean with a soft cloth or tissue. Be tender, as his skin may be sensitive post-orgasm.

 

**Cuddle Time**: Don’t rush off. Spend a few moments cuddling, kissing, or just lying next to each other. This post-blowjob affection can strengthen your bond.

 

By following these tips and techniques, you’ll be giving him not just a blowjob, but an experience he’ll never forget. The art of a great blowjob isn’t just in the act itself, but in the connection, the build-up, and the care you put into every moment. Enjoy the journey, and watch him melt under your touch.